Listen, this poor girl has had enough shock in her life the past year.
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My parents advocate giving her a shock somehow by offering to buy her out so giving her the keys to escape
From everything you told us, she has had a hell of a time and you were not there for her. My personal advice is to show stability and strength.....not shock treatment.
I think she is trying to escape her life. Well, who wouldn't want to escape! Look what she has been through. One of the reasons that I turned to OM was that my life sucked so badly that I wanted to escape. I wanted to rebel and become totally opposite from what I had always been. I also wanted a knight to come save me from all my dispair. That is what she is looking for.
She is trying to run from all the mess that has happened to her lately. You may have no choice except to give it time to run its course. In the meantime, take these other folk's advice about working on yourself. I know how it feels when the H is not there for you. I also know what it's like to have depression, so I'm not trying to be mean to you. Hope you can try to hang in there and not move on without her in your life too quickly. Have lots of patient. Don't give in to a D easily....by that, I mean don't just give it to her to get it over with b/c she could change her mind. She is very hurt, confussed and sounds like she could be on the edge of a nervous break-down. I hope her family will be there for her and help her.
Keep coming back. We care.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
