[quote=klm][quote=runningoutoftime] my inner psycologist thinks he flirted with her because she is so entirely unattractive that he was not nervous and then ended up geting caught up in all the attention with her flirting back.
I wouldn't be surprised if that happened in my H's case. He told me he never meant it to happen, it just did. I believe that. OW was a married, unattractive co-worker with kids and he probably felt she was a safe person to become friends with and then when she flirted with him and etc. I guess they both got too involved more than they should have. I know she made several flattering statements to him about how he is always talking himself down and telling him how wonderful he was and at the time I thought that was weird. Looking back I realize I should have had realized she was probably infatuated with H or whatever you want to call it...Karen
