Originally Posted By: klm
[quote=runningoutoftime] this was the very last thing I expected from him and probably the reason I was attracted to him in the first place. And to have this image I admired destroyed, that was difficult.


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it made me feel like I didn't even know him.


I know this feeling exactly, I felt like I knew my husband better than myself. And 2 things I knew were, he is shyer than the the day is long around woman(I think I still make him nervous sometimes) and he does not like expressing his emotions. Well the limited emails that I saw had flirting and I love yous. I know I already got my hand slapped for dogging the ow but my inner psycologist thinks he flirted with her because she is so entirely unattractive that he was not nervous and then ended up geting caught up in all the attention with her flirting back.


Me~34
H~38
D6.5

EA/PA-DEC.07

Moved out~Apr.13,08
Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08
No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009