Well, after I slept on it...I am not sure how serious he was. I think it is too soon. We only spend a couple of days a week together. He would need to express to me that he is willing to do the work.
I do think big strides have been made in the past few months. I mean when I left TX I really thought it would be the last time I would see him.
I have a confession to make...I got his phone bill for January...and I opened it. There were some calls from OW but nothing like before. It looked like he called her a couple of times but they were always shortly after she called him. The calls were short, maybe 5 mins (before they would be up to 3 hours!). Then about the last 6 or 7 days on the bill..no calls. Hopefully that is tapering off. I really think she is toxic for him.
Anyway, looking forward to spending some time with him tonight.