Hi Gavin, you have come to the right place. I'm in no position to give advice, but I do know that the best thing you can do is just work on yourself. Doing 180's and stuff like that. I assume you are reading the books. They are very helpful. So are the people here. There are lots of us here standing for our marriages. We know what you are feeling and that it is hell. Good luck and God bless.


Me: 35
WAW: 28
Bomb: 1/13/08
S: 1/14/08
D filed: 2/24/08
D final on 7/07/08

Do your damndest in an ostentatious manner all the time. -George S. Patton



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