UP, I am going to give you a piece of advice, tell her everything. She asks a question answer it, HONESTLY. I am speaking from experance on both sides of the fence. I just ended things with OM, and H had A a couple of years ago. When H had his I wanted to know everything, when I say everything, I mean everything. And H thought that he owed it to me to tell me what happened, how, where and all of that. It really helped me move though the process of starting to trust again. That is something if you are willing to stay and work on things you need to rebuild. Now that the shoe is on the other foot, I am the one having to answer those questions. just my two cents.
