I will keep hanging in there, thanks for the advice.

We don't have kids but we do have a cat \:\)

it has been 5 weeks so far of steadily getting worse, vindictive and angry.

My parents advocate giving her a shock somehow by offering to buy her out so giving her the keys to escape, though I don't want to take the risk at the moment as she is likely to take the cash and run. I need time,

Anyone got a magic wand handy?

Thanks for the advice, any further guidance is welcome


Me: 30
W: 31
T: 9.5 yrs
M: 4 Yrs
No Kids, 1 cat
Had a bad year
Turmoil started 22/Jan/08
Seperated, same house 30/Jan/08
Wanted D: 2/Feb/08
Going downhill and towards D with nothing stopping her!