Being OW

[MichelleLT]

When my H and I were first friends we were both dating other people. His GF cheated on him and he was devestated. I never expected he would willingly inflict that kind of pain on me. I guess that say something for how much pain he was in.

But yes, disappointed is a good word. He shattered a lot of my "illusions" about how good a person he was. And he will have to do a lot in the long run to make it up to me. I will never give OW the chance. She is out of my life, and if my wish comes true she will be out of my H's life forever.