How do I begin...#2

[MichelleLT]

I'm not saying move in with him next week. I'm saying, just make sure you tell him that you are open to the idea but need time to think about it.

Then, if you decide to do it, take it slow. Pack up your things over a couple weeks maybe and then do the actual moving in one weekend but down the road. Practically speaking, you do have reasons why it can't be next week. So it can go as fast or slow as you are comfortable with.

While your H went from running away to running back fairly quick, he has made some strides over the last few months. And things over the last few months have been making steady progress. While I think you would both need time to settle in together, it does have to happen eventually to make the M work. You know yourself and your H better than anyone, so you are a far better judge of what is too soon than I can be.