WAW....now the LBS

[HOPEFULinCALI]

I certainly understand about finances. I haven't talked to my coach in sometime, but seeing Michele is my sort of LRT.

Says she can't be doing stuff w/me like that when she's seeing somebody else. That was also her initial response to the intensive invite: "I can't go out of state w/you for a weekend when I'm in another relationship, that's just not appropriate", but then said she'd consider.

I was blown away by her comments. What about that it is inappropriate for her to be dating when she is married. On the bright side it sounds as if she has some realization that you are the better choice. Try inviting her to do something new rather than movies and dinner. Try something that she is interested in but would never expect you to do and if she doesn't want to go then go anyway and have good news to report when you do talk to her about what you are doing without sounding as if you are doing it to get her attention. Take comfort in the small things. Hang in there!