Even small revelations can suddenly precipitate into an explosion of pent up frustration and angst.
So you're a human being like the rest of us. Let him sue you.
Thanks NoCode. That's how I feel. I'm human.
The worst part right now is that he's calling me Inspector Clouseau. He emailed me and that's what the title was. He emailed me to remind me that it's the birthday today of a very good friend of ours. I said I'd send him an ecard. H responded saying.....I'll call him over lunch........and have you ever considered a career as with CSI? I responded by asking him not to be a smarta$$ about this. That I was looking over paper work to get some financial things straightened out for us, I saw it, got upset and called. And that I shouldn't have done it while he was at work. I think he thinks it's funny because it's something from so long ago. While I see his humor as hurtful because his joking about a possilble meeting at a hotel with his OW isn't funny to me.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day