It's great to hear from you! I have been (more or less) keeping up on the different threads that interest me. I see that you seem to be making some great headway. That is absolutely awesome! Keep it up!
I get (almost) embarrassed when I read my thread(s). I do (have done) an awful lot of ranting, with little action on my part.
The clincher (in my situation) I believe, is that my husband is on medications that have put him where he is at. I am reading .. time and time again, of others in similar situations. .. And my H thinks everything is just fine.
I have begun seeing a new counselor .. who happens to be in the same office as my husband's psychiatrist. My husband will be very unhappy if he finds out that I am seeing a counselor (I think he thinks they will talk me into divorce .. or something?) Anyway, I am thinking that this counselor might be able to help me in getting through to husband's pdoc? Either that or at least help me DO something positive for me.
This counselor is still pretty new .. but I'm hopeful.