I for one found the MLC resources thread very useful in the beginning. It helped me to realize what I was up against and that I was not the one who was insane. Smurf worked hard on putting all together for the rest of us.
I was told not to follow the timeline, so I never did. But it did help me prepare for what MAY come next.
I don't think anyone of the oldtimers who posted in the resource thread came off like they knew it all. They got their information from books and experience alone. I believe Snodderly experienced MLC firsthand with 2 men in her lives and we are blessed that she shares those experiences with us. She has helped so many people here on the boards.
No one has all the answers and there really isn't too much information out their on the web or the bookstores.
I still don't see what is so bad about the MLC Resource thread. MLC is a whole different ball game then other spouses who have left their M.
So I for one, am in support of bringing the MLC resource thread back up to the top.
