Hey W2Go, Thats impressive...he rang you but you didnt pick up! Wow, I could learn from you! I was like a greyhound out of the traps in replying to my BFs emails today :-) I think it does sound positive that he phoned you anyway, despite knowing that your D is in bed already. Why would he have done otherwise ?? You didnt say if you picked that call up or not? And what is happening with the house?
I admire your strength in coping with this with such a young D too, makes me feel like a right whinge bag! I only have a cat to worry about. Also, you have inspired me to do more reading, I havent done so far. I like you have done a lot of self examination (critiscism!?) and seen the mistakes I had made in teh R and wish for anything to have another chance to put all that good learning into practice. And it is learnt lessons!
I need to look at your charts (did you email me?), but for instance, in my own sitch, I have Saturn..planet of hard lessons and truths, moving through my 7th house of 1:1 relationships! So textbook really. Hard lessons, and like you say, not just how I could;ve behaved in my R with my BF, but also, other close relationships and major friendships. I do find myself being more compassionate and patient generally and more understanding of people. So I hope these hard lessons stick! I agree with the above though, try not to beat yourself up, I know how easy it is, but as my sister said, knocking your self-esteem wont help anything !
