Originally Posted By: lodo
So there it is. Now I'm really struggling. I feel like I need to confront her and say if she isn't willing to commit to things, then she should leave.

so complicated ...

lodo
Go ahead and do that if you want to shove her out the door and nail it shut behind her. eewww, that sounded really...<insert your word here>.
But really lodo, have you ever been wishy washy about something and the more someone tried to talk you into the more you braced up and thought 'just let me think about it!!! and quit pushing me!!!'

Use this time to your advantage and act like you'll be together forever.

I sure know the feeling of waiting for the bomb to drop. Every time I get to a point of thinking hey I'm making it something snaps and breaks and I am picking myself up again.

Hey lodo, do you mind sharing an email address? would like to share something off board but it's ok if you're not comfortable with that.


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