The point is, I think, that this is a COMMUNITY where we come to SHARE our experiences with each other.
We comfort, we listen, we encourage, we share, we set each other straight. Most importantly we KNOW that we are receiving advice from others who are not experts but have been through it.
I would say that trusting the content of anything you find on a google search is not any wiser than taking the thoughts of someone who has been through MLC themselves as gospel. You certainly have to exercise discretion when attaching significance to material found on the internet at the very least.
Furthermore, can we not assume that if the managers of this site allow this information to become part of a sticky, that they are in general agreement with this information? If not, there's not much management going on here.
As to the rest of Amy's post, I wholeheartedly agree. I'm all for approaching our marital issues with a DB technique. I assume most of us are here because either we've read the books, seen her on TV, or been recommended here by others. But life is not as simple as going down the checklist and marking off step 1, step 2, etc.
We're talking about people's lives here. We're talking about people who have had their once happy lives turned upside down and inside out. Life is just a bit more complicated than that.
Put the resources in a spot where you don't have to be an experienced member to figure out where they are. I'm not sure why they ever had to be moved to begin with. As someone else has already pointed out, Michelle herself recommends arming yourself with as much information as possible about this MLC crap. Information is knowledge and dispels fear.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
