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I used the resources more to let me know that I was not alone and that other people were in the same boat as myself.

When this happen I was embarassed,and did not want to tell anyone.

At the time I was blaming myself and as I see now, others do the same thing.

I needed to know that there were others that felt exactlly the same way I did.

That I was not alone and until I came to the same realization that this happened to other people, I was o.k. to talk about it to other people.

You can compare what is happening in your own circumstance to what is happening to other real live MLC people and their spouses.

To know that you don't have to give up.

Not to give up or give in. There are people to help you in the everyday downs.

In other words "There are real people behind the stories."

Resources are great and I would enjoy them also but.........

I can always go back to read real people stories and how they coped

Enlightened..... by the people on this board

"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"

Being the calmness in the storm......