As for the maturity thing, I need to make sure I remember how to let go and have fun too. I ended up in the responsible role in the R, and it got more ingrained over time. I did the taxes, I managed the bills and the money, I sent the cards and worried about presents. So, not only did H not have to worry about that (and thus had more free time, and time to be lonely) but he also felt like he wasn't able to take care of himself. I see a large part of his rebellion stemming from that. So, it's time to upset the teeter totter a bit IMHO. I think I'm making him do the taxes next year as well.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
