I did at first. The very night I discovered the A, OW in my sitch was made aware that H was in fact M'ed. Then when I found out contact between them was still taking place, the compassion/empathy quickly turned to anger. I set up a plan and made another phone call to her, knowing I would get her voicemail again. Turns out H was the one continuing to lie to the both of us. It was he who was initiating contact; not her. The next time he tried to call her again, she told him to "eat sh*t" and hung up on him.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
