You are one smart young woman! The more I read of what you write, the more certain I am that your H, as he is right now, is in too immature a state to be comfortable with you. Which isn't to say he can't get there, or even that he wasn't there at one time. Just that he isn't there now.
I really like your letter idea. I'm not going to have a lot of time this weekend to help, but I will drop in, and give my thoughts when I can!
My cat jumped up on me last night, purring loudly, between me and the computer. Hmmmmmm......
