I think she'll probably have to work more. Reality can be such a beatch sometimes. \:\) Maybe it will help her at least look at the possibility of reconciliation.

Personally (and this is just me...you decide what's right for you), I would have serious doubts about her if she only stayed because life is harsh with a part time job only. Marriage is more than just financial security, but hopefully at least her insecurity will help the ball start rolling. Resist the urge to bail her out.

In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years.
Abraham Lincoln

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.
Theodore Roosevelt