First of all, thanks for always visiting my thread. I love getting a woman's perspective. Not a lot of that here! Secondly, as I once told you, several other posters have stated that Iraq just exacerbated some latent stuff that was already there with your H. I'm not sure how much you need to apologize. You went to law school for???? To make a betterlife for you and your husband, before kids entered the picture. He needs to suck it up. I feel neglected?? C'mon, dude.
The OW is actually the OC, other child. I've said this to you before, she will outgrow him in due time. Plus, a cutter with a guy who's still married. The layers of pathology are too much to comprehend. This "R" was doomed from the beginning. He is in for a hard fall. Keep your eye on the ball!
I really liked your response to my last post. Thanks!