H never came back from Iraq, part 3

[MichelleLT]

My H is also a people pleaser and doesn't like to argue. So he'd often say "okay" even if he didn't want to do things. I've since come to realize we have different translations for "okay". For me, it means yes or sure. For him, it shows ambivalence. I missed that though, and he never corrected me.

I like some of what you say there. I think I may steal some of it.

I am set on handwriting it for a number of reasons. My H always wished I would write him more letters, especially when he was deployed even though we talked on IM nearly every day. He also is pretty bad about checking his e-mail lol.