Yes sure, do that. You are out of patience and you have read so many books by now, I bet. But do go back sometime, in the beginning it tells you why SOME couples STAY together, what are the qualities they have that other's that fall appart don't. And don't miss the part about guilt of the WAS (he doesn't use this term but you now what I mean), it's a whole chapter. You can't make her read it but maybe you can get a hint about what is going on in her head, maybe!!
