NoCode, I find it interesting that your S7 has Aspergers. I've always noticed a similarity in the personality of your W and my H (as you describe your W). My S14 and D8 also are autism spectrum diagnosed with PDD-NOS. I've suspected some of my H's problems and our R problems might relate from his having some Asperger issues himself (we were involved in a genetic family study with University of Washington b/c they think Asperger/autism spectrum may be genetic). H has problems communicating, anger, etc. He also doesn't want to talk to the kids much if at all about the separating and divorce. Do you think your wife might also have some Asperger type issues as well or am I way off with that? I apologize if I offend you with that as I don't mean to! Karen
