I definitely do not want to poison the relationship between my kids and my wife. They love her (rightfully so) and that's a precious, beautiful thing.

In 10 years who knows where we will be, but she will always be their mom. God willing we will be experiencing less drama. I don't think she is evil, and don't want them to think that either. They need her as a mom for a long time yet. So it is a delicate balance for me - to tell the truth without throwing her under the bus.


M 43
S14 S13 D11 D7
Divorce final: Jan 2009
Making it up as I go....