I will try better on losing the resentment. It just seems so hard. Like I said we don't have a child to talk about and keep in touch with each other. There is nothing so I don't have anything. One day he is there and the next gone. And I haven't seen him in 5 months so I am at the stage I am getting mad/hurt because he doesn't want to even talk to me. Today is his birthday and I have to pretend my husband doesn't exist. It bites.

Any suggestions on what I can do? I know GAL but I have a life. A full life. But he is just not in that life. So any other suggestions?