Like I told him the other night, I will no longer allow myself to be in a M where I have to share my man... I can't do it. I won't do it. And, at this point, I don't think he has it in him to do what it takes to change my mind. I really don't..
I came to the same reality with my X. He didn't want to get divorced either, but he didn't have it in him to do everything that he could to fix our broken marriage. Your H is broken....my X is broken. They want the easy way out. If they both had magical powers, and could erase the last 2 years of our lives they would. They don't want to do the hard work...they don't have it in them...so yeah, they are losing out. They are losing great women who love them deeply...they are losing the women that were willing to give them a second chance. Some day, they will truly realize what that second chance really meant. They will realize the amazing women they were married to...the ones that were willing to look beyond the betrayal, the hurt, the lies, the deceit because they loved them with their whole heart and promised to be with them until death. We were willing to accept the worse to find the better again.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."
