This is what I get from my W today - Not sure what to do, other than just go dark for the time being. She is obviously really hurt right now. How do I show her that I'm not trying to control her (and, tbh, I really didn't realize that I was, or if I really am).
(11:04:40 AM) W: I don't remember whose weekend it is, but I was planning on taking her this weekend (11:04:48 AM) W: I was going to take her to Chuck E. Cheese (11:05:06 AM) M: oh, ok (11:05:27 AM) M: we can make it your weekend if you like (11:05:42 AM) W: the weekends have been mixed lately, I know (11:06:01 AM) W: and I figure you'll need the break with her having a cold (11:06:35 AM) M: I really don't mind either way (11:06:49 AM) M: did you want me to come to chuck e cheese too, or were you going on your own? (11:07:02 AM) W: I'm going on my own (11:07:06 AM) M: ok (11:07:55 AM) M: did you not want us to do stuff with D together anymore? (11:10:49 AM) W: at least for right now (11:11:48 AM) M: okay (11:11:51 AM) M: it's up to you (11:15:34 AM) W: I don't think you have a lot of respect for me (11:15:47 AM) W: you seem to want to control me or to manipulate me (11:15:54 AM) W: and it makes me very unhappy (11:15:59 AM) M: I don't want that at all (11:16:15 AM) M: I certainly don't want you to feel controlled by me (11:17:53 AM) W: and I don't want to be controlled
