My boys always get quiet when I tell them about the steps things their mom takes. Like, the separation. The divorce. They invite me into the house and I cannot accept. Now, the zero communication. None of these were my idea. The so called "Experts" say that W and I should present a united front to the kids. Well, bullspit! I'm not lying to my kids. I'm not saying "WE decided to divorce" to my kids. WE did no such thing. SHE decided. I'm not saying "WE decided it would be good for me to never see you again."

My kids hate all these limitations, is my impression. It confuses them. I cannot see them, I cannot email, I cannot come in the house. They don't know why mom is so bent on ejecting dad from her life. They don't know why she would ask me not to talk to THEM. They want to ask but don't want to know is my feeling, you know?

ps: Grace - have I told you? Your husband is a dope.


M 43
S14 S13 D11 D7
Divorce final: Jan 2009
Making it up as I go....