I think Jody is talking about finding what YOU are passionate about (besides your wife). You'd have to put that into context though. You can be flirty ans suggestive (I'd go for subtly) with your W, but that's as far as I'd take it for now. Listen to her if she talks to you.

What are yu passionate about? What have you always wanted to do? Do you know? What really melts your butter?

You're always in my prayers Treeman.