Olive,

I admire your resolve. Actions do speak louder than words and it does seem like your H just doesn't have the strength or courage to do what is right and fight to try and repair and rebuild his family. That's too bad because I think he realizes he's going to regret this. Oh well. Keep up the good work detaching.... and keep shopping! \:\)

There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.