I don't really understand what Jody means by "finding my passion". Did she mean with my wife. I think she meant find passion and sexiness in her and rebuild that part of the R. I have to get this anger out of her. I think I am making her madder with my changes, PMA and detaching. One of her biggest complents was that i was detaching/distant in our relationship.

Her attitude is definatly changing, she can not quite figure out what is going on. I need to create space so she can think, get rid of pain and make room to feel love again. This could take a really long time. Pray for me.