Out of the Blue?

[kturnernc]

Just_Me, you are correct by saying that we don't know. I think that she is expecting me to be upset with her, which i have not been, just supportive. She knows that I love her and will do anything for her, I am not reinforcing that other than being supportive. I have not been talking to anyone that will talk to her at all. Unless of course they call her directly, but I am pretty sure that has not happened. Or at least I have not heard about it. As far as the dates... guilt? Who knows on that part as I have not said anything other than the conversation last week about us dating. That stemmed from a therapist session and was on my mind.

I honestly think it is guilt and the first round of crashing realizations on her part, that she had not fully thought this separation through completely. She currently only works 2 days a week. I don't think she ever considered that she would have to start working more. She is seeming stressed out all the time now when i see her. She is no longer the chipper, perfectly happy person that she seemed to be right after the split. Who knows?

Backing up a bit on her is what i am going to do. I am not going to suggest anything that I may be construed as me spying or prying. She is going to get all her space.