Holly: I am so glad TJ called you. It is nice to see some progress as it has been so long for our husband's.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Was, Ummmmm, do you get out of that state much? Hilton Head is a barrier island off the coast of south carolina,,,,,,,, not very tropical, or warm.
TJ has earned this time with me. He is amazing.....
I am falling in love AGAIN!!!!!
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
Sptty, we get there Good Friday and leave the next Saturday. We have an unheard of 8 night rental! Not on the beach, but we have a private pool,,,, Are you going to be there too?
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
Honestly, Holly, this is going to be so amazing. I am impressed with TJ's progress. God is really good because I can now see HIS work in our men.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
No, I will not be there at Spring Break. I was there last Spring Break and then again in August. This year, I will be going down the second week in June. Too bad we won't be there at the same time. Could have been a party!!
Have fun. I hope the weather cooperates. It can be chilly in March. But, alas, you will be by the ocean and that is renewing all by itself. At which plantation are you staying? I mostly stay on Forest Beach.
I'm jealous. Have fun.
Spitty
Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest. Mark Twain
TJ had asked me to join him and our D/SIL this weekend. I declined, need a break, and I thought he did too. I told him I was busy, and I wanted him to have time with the kids. He ventured further, and I agreed to meet them @ MIL hometown, between where we live.
Awwwww, he missed me!
Well today we met, and it was nice. But somehow it fell short of my expectations......
I just wanted to post this so everyone can see that ambivilence is part of the process.
Still, one step forward, two steps back.
Cheers.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
Geez, Holly, I see ambivalence as one step forward, one step back. (j/k a bit) But I dig what you are saying. And it is great that you can share it so openly and honestly.
I hate ambivilence rides. They don't even have flashing lights or sirens.
Hmmmmm... one step forward, two back ... I tried to learn that one once but kept stepping on her feet. She found out why I don't dance and went to find someone who can.
At least there is usually lots of extra room in the ambivilence to play doctor. But go figure it, the bandaids don't have adhesive, there's not buckles on the restraints, and ... no wonder they call it an ambivilence.
