I am on antidepressants at the moment and have been for a couple of weeks, I have also been focussing on myself doing gym training, seeing a therapist and so on.
I am also aware of the issues that were there, I took her for granted and did not nurture our relationship. It has steadily declined over the last year and really bad the last 6 months (depression)
I am committed to saving our marriage as it is worth saving but it seems hopeless at the moment, why the thundering towards the divorce being nasty and so on (i'm nice so dont really understand nasty especially to somone you love). She is even packing some things.
She has always said she woudl only marry once, that I was the one and she does not believe in divorce but here we are (or there we are going).
I am ready to move forward, I have grown up somewhat as I do all the housework at the moment, she has done none (I have no problems with this) its just the reconnecting with each other but I am getting stonewalled all the time and have done over the last 5 weeks.
Any suggestions of how I can get her open to the possibility of us sorting things out? I have decided (rather than hope) to make our relationship fantastic if we get there.
Its just getting there.
Me: 30 W: 31 T: 9.5 yrs M: 4 Yrs No Kids, 1 cat Had a bad year Turmoil started 22/Jan/08 Seperated, same house 30/Jan/08 Wanted D: 2/Feb/08 Going downhill and towards D with nothing stopping her!
