Believe none of what they say! And half of what they do!
The WAS will say anything, but it's often not really true. "our split was mutual" is just one example.
The money worries are not what you need right now, but it looks like they are coming. What can you do to make this easier on yourself? Do you have people that might be able to help out? Are there ways to save more or earn more in the short term? Ways to cut costs?
Your hubby appears to be pushing for a financial separation, maybe not a legal one, but at least a practical one. Have you got an attorney? Seriously, now is a good time to have a consult with one, if you haven't already. I can't recall. It is a good way to protect yourself. Listen, if you are like I was, you don't even want to THINK about separation and divorce. The problem is, you may not have a choice. So now may be a good time to consult with an attorney, not to push for a divorce mind you, but to protect yourself, come what may.
ps: I live in the Seattle area!
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....
