I also know that almost 2.5 years later (yes, my H moved out that long ago) I can look at it all and be thankful for all that has happened. I didn't want them, but, man, I needed some of the lessons I have learned along the way. Now I wouldn't trade them for the world.
I do realize that the changes in me would not have happened without this FREAKIN' experience.
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YOU...the girl who is smart and funny (my observations) and all of the other things that you mentioned earlier!
Dont stop...more more more (giggle giggle ha ha)
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Czm, I don't say a lot about my sitch anymore, but if you had any idea what was going on over here maybe you would be able to understand better just how much I do understand. I am not that far removed from where you are. I have just learned, in all of this time, that my H's actions have nothing to do with who I am.
Where is your stitch? Wanted to find it....
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[And, did you Youtube the Matt Damon video yet? If that doesn't get a smile out of you, I don't know what will!
I looked for it and can't find it!! Can you link it for me???
Last night my sister stayed on the phone with me until 12:15. She is a rock. She let me cry - and have a bad night. AND she said TOMORROW is a new day. THANK GOD!!
So today is a new today. It doesn't erase what or where I was yesterday. The dang feelings were real. All of it. BUT TODAY is new. RIGHT!!???!!
Gotta get to work. Been here for an hour and been typing you guys!!
I really really hope that people read this thread and USE it at as a lifeline. AGAIN it IS NOT about HOW to get your h back 101. It IS about how to get YOU back #1!!
thank you
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again