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I also know that almost 2.5 years later (yes, my H moved out that long ago) I can look at it all and be thankful for all that has happened. I didn't want them, but, man, I needed some of the lessons I have learned along the way. Now I wouldn't trade them for the world.


I do realize that the changes in me would not have happened without this FREAKIN' experience.

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YOU...the girl who is smart and funny (my observations) and all of the other things that you mentioned earlier!


Dont stop...more more more (giggle giggle ha ha)


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Czm, I don't say a lot about my sitch anymore, but if you had any idea what was going on over here maybe you would be able to understand better just how much I do understand. I am not that far removed from where you are. I have just learned, in all of this time, that my H's actions have nothing to do with who I am.


Where is your stitch? Wanted to find it....

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[And, did you Youtube the Matt Damon video yet? If that doesn't get a smile out of you, I don't know what will!


I looked for it and can't find it!! Can you link it for me???

Last night my sister stayed on the phone with me until 12:15. She is a rock. She let me cry - and have a bad night. AND she said TOMORROW is a new day. THANK GOD!!

So today is a new today. It doesn't erase what or where I was yesterday. The dang feelings were real. All of it. BUT TODAY is new. RIGHT!!???!!

Gotta get to work. Been here for an hour and been typing you guys!!

I really really hope that people read this thread and USE it at as a lifeline. AGAIN it IS NOT about
HOW to get your h back 101.
It IS about how to get YOU back #1!!

thank you


M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06
Moved out 3/12/07
D final 7/30/2008
finding myself again