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As for my goals:

1. I want to get the kids to a place that I am able to leave them at the house alone for about two and half hours until I get off work.

2. I want to be able to inspire change in the children that will do nothing but benefit them in the future.

3. I want to work on the things that I did that was destructive to the marriage. a.) not stepping up and helping out more b.)always trying to control how or when we did something and listen more to her ideas and suggestions.

4. I would like to work on things that will be positive towards our first meeting when the children and I go back to the United States.

These are just some of the things that I would like to accomplish. As for the first and second I think I have a real good start on but this is the first time in 16 years that they have had to be there with out an adult there. And I also know that it is just the begining but I am seeing that they like the fredom abit and have tried pushing the boundries abit but I expect that.

When it comes to the third I got it full throttle because in order to take care of the children I have to maintain the house. It is a huge learning curve for me because my W took care of almost all of it for us. So although I am not as proficient at it as her... I think I am holding my own pretty well. Although now I am supper tired when I get home from work and such.

I really haven't thought too much on the fourth because I know that it is supper early in the separation and I know that things could change in a hurry so... I am open to suggestions on this one since I have about 6 months to figure out what will work the best.