thanks for the response. it reminds me that I need to set more achievable, small goals. get back to the basics. I was making baby steps and then got overly confident. even though I know better, part of me is often stuck in that old mindset that one perfect conversation will win her back. it's tempting to want to fast forward when you have a few good interactions, but wise DB know to be cautious. thank God for the forum.
I am so glad that I at least made the decision to refrain from calling her when I received the letter. I was so angry and upset (because my expectations have been too high). I'm finally back in a relaxed, calm state and feel so good about allowing myself to ride the emotional wave rather than reacting irrationally with a desperate phone call...
stay focused and keep a positive outlook as you approach your intensive w/Michele. we're all pulling for you!
Me: 35 WAW: 34 T: 7.5 yrs M: 3 yrs (2/14/05) no kids ILYB...& EA Bomb 1/5/07 S - 6/15/7 PA started 6/16/07 D Final 10/14/08