2) She went to Staples and bought one of those $30 divorce kits. Probably in reference to my comment last night about how I didn't want to waste money on lawyers.
She probably does not realize that she could get the same forms for free from the county court house. Also, it is not wise to do a "do it yourself divorce" when there is considerable assets and children involved. It could get thrown out after everything is done for a technicality. I am sure you probably already know that if your situation goes to a D that you will want to use a lawyer.
