Thanks I'm on the right track to get the kids on a routine and such. It has been a week now and things are starting to fall into place as for the kids and I.
I have ordered the DB and DR books and I can't wait to start reading them.
AS for her mom she was the one that had asked me to stall with the big D as long as I could. I have no intention of asking her mom to help. Although I do think that she has an agenda of her own wether it benefits the sitch, I will just have to wait and see.
Me 36 W 36 S 15 D 12 M 16 Bomb Nov 07 WAS Feb 08 My Sitch http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1376213&page=0&fpart=1