Cat, I was telling Lissie tonight that you were the very first person who posted to me. It inspired to me to stand and fight for my own life and marriage. It was amazing to me that you would go out of your way to post to me. I understand better now why you did what you did, and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for that.
I am sorry that your sitch has taken this turn. I followed along for quite sometime in piecing. I will say this to you though, you know exactly what you need to do. You have advised your fair share of people around here on how to handle this exact same sitch. Search your heart, you have all the answers.......
In the meantime, know that we are all here for you and will help anyway that we can.