Why do they rewrite history to fit where they are now? I have accepted that is his choice why can't he?
That would require that they accept at least some of the blame for where things are. This way, they can completely avoid, or at least mostly, the guilt that they feel for what they have done.
BTW, my W is the world champion at this, refuses to even acknowledge that she is having an affair, yet locks herself in her room every evening and logs into her computer to carry on her long distance affair, complete with webcam! Must be tough to fit both of those personalities into one brain.
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Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread
