Questions or thoughts on other woman/man.

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Sandy,

When I read what you put, I imediately saw it from a different perspective. The first thing that comes to mind is "Is the OW an MLCer?" I look at this from the perspective of her H and what he would be saying if he was a poster on this board. He would maybe say that his W is married with 2 kids, is successful and has a demanding job. They have been married for X years and now she is having an A with one of her subordinates. From her position of afluence she takes him traveling blah blah blah.....

I guess what I'm saying is that it is an A and nothing more. It will be exposed for what it is and will not last. It is a secretive R that is being conducted by 2 people who are actively damaging their 2 familes and their children. You have no reason to be threatened by her. She is just as troubled as your H is and just a symptom of his problems as he is a symptom of hers.