You sound really good Marcum. GREAT job not going over there when she was sick. You handled that perfectly.

About her coming to the house - actually I would suggest that you DO make sure she asks, and make sure it's always arranged ahead of time. It sounds like she's even WANTING you to set that boundary with her. She wants her own independent life - and you need to insist on yours, too.

Have a fun time out of town!

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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