Anyway, quick update. I wonder if her attitude of this little situation is cracking a bit. I am not going to read too much into it though. Back to the story... I went tonight to pick up the kids. I walked in and thought I would help her by making a few suggestions on things she has been trying to change, she has been complaining about money and auto draft things. The day before she had moved 2 of her insurance accounts to a different agent. This was because my sister was our original agent. Anyway, she onlymoved 2, so we now have 2 auto draft accounts not just one!!! So I told her that she should move all the accounts of hers to her account and that I would move all to mine. She blew up!!! Told me my sis was prying where she did not belong, complained about money (she had just got a bill), said she did not know how she was going to pay mortgage. Totally lost it. I was very sympathetic, told her that I understood that I was struggling too and that I had to make a strict budget.
She then went off accusing me of trying to pull something over on her, having her followed, spying on her, putting software on the PC to track her stuff. WOW!!! I have no desire to do any of this as I have stated before. On these points I assured her that I was being nothing but honest and that I swore to her that I would not do those things. I have never lied to her when things are promised and she knows that. For these points, I am guessing that she feels kind of guilty that she is seeking a date so early in a separation. I think that she also feels confused because she is seeing that I am being very honest and supportive and that I am not that bad.
Anyway, sorry for the epic typing there was a lot of little things. As I had said, I am trying my hardest not to read anything into this, but this is the first time I have really seen her crack since the original separation. Up until now she has pretty much been all smiles, doing great, loving life, free as a bird, etc.
Should I be reading something into this? Do I want to?
Last edited by kturnernc; 02/28/0802:45 AM.
Ken Me: 37 Her: 38 Son: 8 (spina bifida) Son:2 M 6/24/1994 S 1/21/2008 Original Sitch
