Had a great call with my coach Jody today. Her message was to detach as much as possible. She said W is beating me up because she does not want to give up yet and she is trying not to validate my positive changes. She is not done with me yet for these reasons. She said I need to add some humor and not listen to the same old stuff over and over. She wants me to find my passion and move into the friendship stage. She said not to spend time alone yet because that is when she beats on me and to empower her. Tell her she is great at the things she does and so on. She really wants me r=to reduce contact with her until the anger is gone. She also said she does not like all the changes that i have made because it does not validate her actions and drive to S or D. She also said this is not a good stage for MC.
