Yes it is a downer when you don't get a lot of responses. When that happens to me I do as Kalni suggested and kind of just post for me. If nothing else it is a record of how I'm feeling or journaling something that has taken place.. and it's good to be able to look back and see what's happened so far and how far you've come.
As for your W. I have no idea why she's so angry. Have you thought about getting the book "For Men Only"? I'm reading the one "For Women Only" and I have to say I'm kind of beating myself up for not realizing what my H needed from me and I wasn't giving to him. Anyway, maybe there would be helpful information about when women get angry or something like that in that book?
Keep posting.. we're all in the same boat here and for me it helps a lot to know I'm not alone.. and neither are you!