Back on the Roller Coaster - OW still around

[micoms]

FA,

You go girl! Great news, seems H is wanting back in your lives. Maybe when you get together with H, when D is at overnighter, you can sit down and set some goals. Use your DB skills! MAbe set up a niht every other week or so where just the two of you go out. Do you have any family near who could watch D fo the night?

This is what you've worked so hard for, take it slow. Make sure you don't get back into old habits. In my case if W wanted to restore M I would not let her come back home right away, 2 or 3 months of dating first, working on getting the feelings stirred up again, I'd want a date night every week, more hugs and kisses.

It was a shock when I saw myself without beard, I've had it for over 20 years. I don't thinkour kids have ever seen me without one. I' be going to D's house again this weekend, for Chucky Cheese for GS. Will make sure to look good and upbeat. Might stop by Sat to drop off mail while on my way "out". Maybe she'll do a drive by again.

Again great news, it might be time to pursue H just a little. Let him know your still interested. Maybe it's time to read some posts in piecing, get somme ideas on how to procede. Good luck!!!

Mike